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We hear a lot about a Proverbs 31 wife, but here are the steps wife should take when her But, the Proverbs 31 husband must be hard working and wise as well or he would not be able Sad to say he is apathetic and lazy.


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My husband was involved in porn soon after our marriage and refused to have any kind of intimacy, not even holding hands. I suspect that he.


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There are several different scenarios to what one would consider a lazy husband to be, so let's take a look at each of them. Husband A. He fully takes his biblical.


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Laziness has no place in the character of a follower of Jesus. Read what the Bible has to say about being lazy and the heart-breaking.


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β€œWill God allow me to divorce my lazy husband who refuses to work and provide for me and our children?” This is a question many Christian.


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After that, you feel guilty about how you handled yourself. We all experience negative emotions when we feel someone is manipulating us or not carrying his fair share of the load. However, I can say that I have been the one holding everything together for a long time and I am mentally exhausted. Now your husband is not your child, nor should you parent him. Your h seems to lack an interest in his child already, so this tells you a lot. You have to find your voice; your strong, firm, yet loving voice and say no. By your own words, you are tired of it. Your marriage does not glorify God as it is right now. So your next question is, how can you best glorify God in the ugly and painful situation that you are in? It appears that your husband wants someone to take care of him his load so that he can live as he pleases with no responsibility and no accountability. What is in his best interest right now? Your marriage relationship is sick. We have been seperated for 2 months now and we recently had a baby girl. You must learn how to set better boundaries both with your money and your emotions. Answer : My heart goes out to you. Click To Tweet. From what you wrote, your spouse has no interest in facing or dealing with these issues. I also have a similar situation here. This was the first time in 10 years that I had my children and grandchildren with me to celebrate. He is a chronic liar so I have zero trust in most everything he says. I thought we had a good marriage until I found out he was addicted to pain killers when I was five months pregnant with my only child. Read it again as if it was a response to your own letter. So please, get some collective wisdom from other women on this site, get yourself a good counselor or coach, and do your work. When his addiction was found out, he detoxed. Therefore, change must begin with you. It is good that you are separated from him; that is best for you and for your baby. Is it to continue to indulge his irresponsibility? He spends all of his money and has nothing to show for it. Instead of learning how to appropriately respond, you react. Remember, you can only set boundaries on yourself, not on him. You are full of fear, you are over-functioning, providing for your family and taking care of your child. Do you think the way you are functioning in your marriage right now pleases God? The other area you must begin to set some boundaries on besides your money is your emotional life. I know that none of these options feel good. Let me just say it straight. Figure out a way to keep your money from him.{/INSERTKEYS}{/PARAGRAPH} But i dont know what to do … I fear divorce but i also dont want to live like this forever… What advice can i get from you ladies? This marriage is taking its toll on you and probably your son as well. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. My husband has always been very lazy and irresponsible but these past few months he has got worse and started lying alot more than usual. They are all hard. You explode in anger and vomit out all your feelings and then later regret it and feel guilty. He also steals money from me and lies about it. To over-function so that he can continue to be irresponsible and act like a child instead of a grown man? The Bible says that each one of us is to bear our own load Galatians What do you think that means in your marriage? I had my baby boy and I thought things were looking up. I hear that you have a strong heart to please God but let me ask you a question. It seems everything he says is a lie and im tired of it. {PARAGRAPH}{INSERTKEYS}I hope you had a great weekend. It was great. Those three options are also good for you. Or do you think you are carrying your load and his load β€” and carrying it a bit resentfully? If your husband was sick and dying of cancer or some other major illness he could not control, it might be noble of you to sacrifice for him right now. He said he needed the cash to purchase his prescription medication, so I gave in and gave him money. Again, trigging my fear of him abusing pills. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. You are not staying well right now. Friend, how did you get out of the stuck place of over-functioning and finally allow your husband the opportunity to face his own immaturity, entitlement and sin? These situations can be very confusing. He can begin to realize that he has a lot of maturing to do in order to function as a grown up. Then he has some hard choices to make. I know I have made mistakes in the marriage too, lashing out at him when he lies, belittling him when he is irresponsible with money etc. It enables him to stay immature, irresponsible, and childish. It will be directed to help inform, educate and train people in the church on destructive relationships, particularly emotional abuse. Instead of cake, I decided to get fruit and have a chocolate fondue. That sounds more like the mindset of an immature adolescent than a grown man. Your husband under-functions does what he pleases, and spends whatever money he earns on himself with no accountability to contribute to his family. Option 1 is to continue doing what you are doing. Learn how your comment data is processed. I understand you are concerned that he has a lot of mental health issues but irresponsibility, laziness, and chronic deceit are not mental health issues, they are character issues. However, Biblical love always acts in the best interests of the other person as best as you can discern. Then your ugly angry voice comes out and belittles him. He uses a large amount of medication for his mental health issues but has always struggled to function as a responsible adult and is dishonest. Not a good path to continue. It may be that you need to initiate a separation from him in order to find your voice and be able to gain the strength to have your boundaries. If you have to pick up a prescription, I will call the pharmacy and give them my credit card number and then you can go pick it up. But does this glorify God? Instead of dancing that same old dance, you must learn a new dance. Looking for biblically based counsel, thank you! By doing option 3, your husband may see you are serious and unwilling to continue to bear his load. Your confusion is that you enable him until you get sick and tired of it. Would you allow your son to do that? Because you love him and you know that if you allowed your son to hit you or swear at you in a fit of anger, that would not only hurt his character development, it would hurt your long term relationship with him. Option 2 is that you get help for you. Im also a bit confused about what i need to do here… I understand that God can do anything with anything or anyone. Get some help and support to learn that new dance and start by setting and keeping good boundaries. I later called the pharmacy and he never picked up his medicine β€” another lie. You are not responsible for the choices he makes but you are responsible for the choices you make. He lost his job earlier this month and continued to blow through money β€” harassing me to give him cash. Keep strong boundaries. Biblical love does not mean that you allow an irresponsible and destructive person to walk all over you. Or he will throw a temper tantrum and guilt trip you to try to get you to back down. Hi my name is cinthia. Do you think your husband is bearing his own load as an adult contributor to your marriage? It is not functioning as God intended it to. Give into his temper tantrums and manipulations? He spent all of our savings over the course of a year. Why not?